Over
the past 2 years I have had the privilege to learn about the power of positive
praise in the primary aged classroom. I
wanted to write a post to share some helpful phrases you can start to
incorporate into your classroom, home, or daily language with children,
specifically ages 3-7.
Here are some simple tidbits about positive praise:
1. You
cannot “over-do” praise.
I believe children should receive praise and affirmation for
the ordinary behaviors they are expected to do on a day-to-day basis. Young
students are just starting to figure out the world around them and if they
receive love and attention from following the rules and expectations, they are
more likely to continue the praised behavior. Simply put, PRAISE THEM! Don’t feel
like a broken record – let them know how much you appreciate their good
behavior.
2. Correct Simple Negative
Behaviors
In my Kindergarten/First Grade classrooms I so often see
students exhibiting simple behaviors: running to the door, rolling at the carpet,
blurting, trying to make others laugh, being silly during learning time… A good
portion of the time, I can correct those behaviors by simply saying “I love how
Susie is sitting criss cross with her voice at a Level 0.” Boom, shwoosh, zoop
- 3 kids just fixed their behavior. “Oh I like how John fixed his body right
away to match Susie – what a great first time listener!” Swish, swash, swoop!
The rest of the off task students just
fixed their behavior. Now sometimes, it is not that simple, but it sounds much
more polite than the “Sit still. Turn around. Stop this…” It makes me feel much
better to correct behaviors by zooming in on the positives and not having to
single a student out.
3. Instill Motivation and Self Worth
When students are praised, they feel a sense of worth. When
you walk by a student and say “Wow I love how you started with a capital letter
and used spaces between the words in your sentences. This looks nice and neat
and easy to read!” That student now feels proud of that work and will likely
remember to do those things in their next writing assignment. The other
students will also take note of the praise you gave their classmate and want
their teacher to give them the same praise! They now feel as if they excel in a
certain academic area and may put forth a new effort with their confidence!
4. You will feel silly!
Saying these things will truly make you feel “silly” at
first - but when you get in the
wonderful habit of giving positive specific praise and you see the impact it
has on the classroom environment you will never go back! Getting in the habit
can be tricky at first: ask for help! I had instructional coaches and
administrators look for it in my observations.
Make
sure to use SPECIFIC praise!
Generic Praise Specific Positive Praise
Good
job!
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Wow!
You made a capital “M” with nice, straight lines.
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Nice
work!
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I
like how you completed your journal page and used sight words during Work on
Writing.
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Neat
handwriting!
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Wow!
You made a capital “M” with nice, straight lines. Your writing looks neat and easy to read.
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Bill
is sitting nicely.
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Bill
is sitting criss cross, watching the teacher, and has his voice at a 0. He is
ready to learn!
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I hope you enjoy using positive praise with the little ones in your life! Helpful hint, it is quite effective with adults too! :)